What did I get myself into?........Not Again Gunta!!!!
I've just realized that if i pursue this and try to win your heart....I think I will get hurt again... and this time, it's not even started yet... I m still not ready to go through another "rejection".. your hands are full and 'sort-of' tied. And I do believe those weren't just "dates".... theoretically speaking, if you are not interested with them, you would not be spending your time with them in so-called "dates".. right? It takes 2 to tango.....
So I m taking a step back.....
Whatever it was......... Thank you CareBear & D.A.R.T..... I haven't had so much fun for quite some time... But somehow or rather... I was not happy (in a way)...Sorry CareBear & D.A.R.T for not being such a good sport or a good company. I was not really myself tonight...
My Ex have had written another 3 very long emails to me today. My Ex is still insisted wanting to see me....
Dear God, PLEASE God... HELP ME!
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Hey Ary... I appreciate your honesty, and somehow felt guilty that I might have contributed in a way or another in your feeling not so happy... hhmmm....
Yep, in a relationship or a friendship, it takes 2 to tango and it takes only 1 to spoil the rhythm of the dance. I guess it all comes down to the condition that both agree to dance together in a single choreography too...
Sometimes, Life tends to show us options by not giving us what we want in the first place. We might go away grumbling about how Life isn't treating us fair, but in actual fact, Life is doing us a favour, really.
I may not know your past, so commenting on your ex may be something that I've not earned a right to do, but i am reminded of a story about a little monkey who wants to learn how to swing like Tarzan. In order for the monkey to swing, he has to let go of the vines behind to grab on to the next one, while at it, grab hard. I suppose it is like that also in relationships. We can't move forward if we keep holding on to the vines at the back.
As mentioned before, there are times when we missed out on the opportunity for a beautiful friendship just because we were trying too hard to look for a perfect relationship, and as it has been shown to be true, many bonds in friendships are stronger than those found in relationships. So my friend, don't step back. You may not know what you're missing...
I've been following the progress of this whole story, and as it were, my own heart is still raw from a recent assault, I know what you're going through... take heart, dear Ary, for in this life, we are all pilgrims, wandering about and around, looking for a way to go back home. But until we do, we still have many sunrises, sunsets, and dark moonless nights to endure. And when the moon is slow to show, you'd be lucky to have someone to come and build a bonfire for you. But chances are, we won't always be lucky. So we'd be happy to have someone, to sit through the dark night with.
And in many instances, we'd rather be happy than lucky. No?
dART
....My BIGGEST problem is that I do not like to share. That's tough...
what do you mean you dont like to share?
dART
CareBear + 6 Dates + Me... that's sharing. I can't cope with that...I do not have a strong heart
i see.. well, that could be a determining factor for you relationship, or it could also be a point of sacrifice and compromise... a choice for you to make...
dART
hhmmm... are u speaking on CareBear's behalf or saying it as a Doctor?
haha... me speak me own mind
dART
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